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Silvia Gasparini's avatar

Wow! Ivan Vostroknutov describes a very clever and farsighted series of choices and list of priorities, beginning with using the UN for information and on to looking forward to how to buffer the social consequences of war. I bet this approach is effective right now and will keep being effective as the situation develops. Great job.

Frank Sterle Jr.'s avatar

To me, boxing was bad enough as a violent professional sport. Now, however, there’s (most notably) the barbaric ‘ultimate fighting’, using barely covered knuckles and even bare knees for knock-out blows — yet it’s legally selling live-viewing tickets to eagerly excited individuals and commercial-time slots to legitimate business advertisers.

I've always been bewildered and troubled by a person's moral or psychological ability to throw a serious punch without physical provocation. Learning and mastering self-defense skills is one thing, but society’s increasingly violent sporting events also serve as bad examples of how boys, and even girls, can behave towards one another.

Also disturbing are the overly-eager onlookers. … In the early 1980s, I’d see from a distance the mostly-male ‘audience’ at the after-classes fights between a pair of almost-always male students, one of whom was needed to initiate the barbaric exchange.

A few years later, during my own troubled-teen years, I observed how by ‘swinging first’ a guy potentially places himself in an unanticipated psychological disadvantage — one favoring the combatant who chooses to patiently wait for his opponent to take the first swing, perhaps even without the fist necessarily connecting.

Just having the combatant swing at him before he’d even given his challenger a physical justification for doing so seemed to instantly create a combined psychological and physical imperative within to react to that swung fist with justified anger. In fact, such testosterone-prone behavior may be reflected in the typically male (perhaps unconsciously strategic) invitation for one’s foe to ‘go ahead and lay one on me,’ while tapping one’s own chin with his forefinger.

Yet, it’s a theoretical advantage not widely noticed by both the regular scrapper mindset or general society. Instead of the commonly expected advantage of an opponent-stunning first blow, the hit triggers an infuriated response earning the instigator multi-fold returned-payment blows. [A friend has informed me, however, that he’d heard/read of research showing that the one to throw the first serious punch usually turns out to be the victor.]

Still, matters should remain peaceful, or at least non-violent, if every party shows the other due respect. And, of course, everyone follows the basic rule: Only a physical first swing will justify a returned swing. And, similarly, a verbal assault is merited only when in response to one.

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